Creating A Safe School Climate In Our School
CASS
is a multifaceted program that brings together members of a school community to
change the social culture within a school. A safer social climate fosters a positive
environment in which caring adults are committed to setting firm limits on unacceptable
behavior and helping children learn the skills to stop and prevent peer aggression.
The effort to reduce peer aggression involves long-term, systemic change through
a collaborative approach utilizing faculty, parents, and high school mentors.
Its goal is to positively impact the social norms in the school community by recognizing
the hurtful, covert behaviors of peer aggression, identifying a more positive
set of normative behaviors for adults and students, and implementing an action
plan.
Peer aggression includes physical, verbal, and relational aggression. Relational
aggression (RA) is a unique form of peer aggression that involves threatening
or harming one’s relationships.
The CASS program is based on the knowledge that we have to change the normative
beliefs of children if we want to change their behavior. This takes time. We allow
three full years for the systemic change. It begins with a group of volunteers
from the school and the community who form a task force to lead the change process.
Here at Cathedral Center the task force includes an Administrative Group, Parent,
Group, Teacher Group and Mentoring Group.
Cathedral Center CASS Vision The
Cathedral Center community of staff, students, and parents work together to ensure
that all who enter our school will feel physically and socially secure. Our safe
environment will promote the emotional and academic development of all. Open communication,
without fear of retribution, is the norm. Students and staff look forward to coming
to school because everyone is accepted and treated equally with dignity, respect,
and sensitivity. We value the unique qualities in each person. These ideals will
empower each member of our community to defend and nurture one another.
A group of Cathedral Center parents, along with area high school students, make
up a team of CASS mentors that that are committed to being positive role models
for Cathedral Center students in grades 4—8. The parents act as facilitators,
assisting the high school students in preparing for their mentoring sessions and
supporting them during the presentations. Parents meet with the mentors once a
month, prior to the school presentations.
As stated in the Ophelia Project manual, mentorship is an important vehicle in
The Ophelia Project for promoting positive change. Mentors are carefully trained
to understand pro-social behavior, to demonstrate effective communication skills,
and to serve as roles models for peers and younger children. Mentorship experiences
build leadership capabilities in students.
The CASS Prayer
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O
Lord God,
You have told your people what is expected:
To Do Justice
To love kindness
And to walk humbly with You.
Lord give me a heart that is just,
That my thoughts, actions, and words may reflect you.
When someone is hurting,
May my hands reach out and give them comfort and support.
When someone feels alone and afraid,
May I listen and offer encouragement.
Lord give me a loving kindness for all people
That I may treat all people with respect and dignity.
When someone is being ridiculed
May I speak words of gentleness and compassion.
When someone is being left out
May I invite him or her to join my friends.
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Lord,
You ask me to walk humbly with You
And be your reflection.
May I be an example to others
And remember to treat all people as I want to be treated.
When I have offended anyone,
Give me the courage to seek forgiveness from You
And from those I have offended.
Lord, bless the CASS program at the Cathedral Center.
May our school be a place that we truly recognize that
You have made all people in your image and likeness.
Each person is a gift that you have given us.
Help us to see the gift of everyone
In our school, in our families and in our world.
AMEN |
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Task Force Members
Suggested Reading
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Parents: |
- Easing the
Teasing (by: Judy Freeman)
- A Fine
Young Man (by: Michael Gurian)
- Real Boys:
Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood (by: William Pollock)
- Queen Bees
& Wannabees: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends &
Other Realities of Adolescence (by: Rosalind Wiseman)
- Strong
Mothers, Strong Sons: Raising the Next Generation of Men (by: Ann F.
Caron, Ed.D.)
- Girl Wars:
12 Strategies That Will End Female Bullying (by: Dr. Cheryl Dellasega/Dr.
Charisse Nixon)
- Odd Girl
Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls (by: Rachel Simmons)
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Children: |
- Cliques,
Phonies and Other Baloney (by: Trevor Romain)
- Don’t
Laugh at Me (by: Steve Seskin)
- The Recess
Queen (by: Alexis O’Neill)
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Catholic Schools Week
Cathedral
Center School celebrated Catholic Schools Week from January 29 – February
3 this year. There were activities planned for students, teachers and families
throughout the week, including a family brunch, special Mass, 7th and 8th grade
talent show, faculty lunch and much, much more!
The theme for the weeks activities was Catholic Schools:
Character. Compassion. Values
The students from various grades were asked to define these words. Some of their
definitions were:
| Character:
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“Character
is who you are when no one is looking.”
“If someone is in trouble, s/he will be your voice.”
“Putting others before yourself.”
“Character is the person’s biography without words.” |
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“Letting
your faith lead you in all you do.”
“Always being there for others.”
“It is bringing in a snack so someone’s tummy can be filled.”
“It is how you feel for others when someone is down and you feel bad for
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“They
are the things that are important to you that you try to uphold for righteousness.”
“Things that make you who you are inside.”
“Deeds you want to accomplish for God.”
“A person with values is the kind of person God wants all of us to be.” |
These
definitions were read at the opening prayer service on Monday. At the end of the
prayer service, students gathered as grade levels. Students were asked to nominate
one girl and one boy from their grade who exemplified these attributes. The students
were asked to write at least one reason why s/he nominated a particular student.
The votes were gathered and tabulated by the teachers.
Tuesday was “Student Day” at Cathedral Center. As part of the celebration,
the school gathered for an assembly to recognize the boys and girls nominated
as a “Student of Character and Compassion.” Each student nominated
by their classmates received a certificate, a pen, and a tee shirt with the logo
“I go above and beyond.” Congratulations to all the students.
Grade Level Lunches Get An "A+"
Grade
Level Lunches are a new addition to Cathedral Center this school year. This is
an opportunity for parents to join their child for lunch, while visiting with
other students, parents and teachers from the same grade.
Mrs. Abramczyk coordinates and schedules the crew for the grade lunches, as well
as organizing the decorating, setting up, serving, and clean up. Each room parent
has been the coordinator of the Grade Level Lunch invitations and responses. Miss
Hund is the overall coordinator of reservations, she orders the catered lunch,
and assures that no student is left out of this function.
If no family member is available to join a student at lunch, Miss Hund makes sure
someone “adopts” him or her for the luncheon. For some grades she
may plan an activity or a game for the class and parents to participate in.
The Grade Level Lunches take place on the early dismissal Wednesday of each month
with parents arriving at noon and the students then joining them. If you have
been to one you know how wonderful they are for everyone.
There are still some lunches to come... 1st Grade in March, 2nd Grade in April
and 3rd Grade in May. We hope you plan to attend if you have a child in those
grades!
Thank you to all those parents who have helped thus far, and continue to do so,
making these a great success! Any parents interested in being a server/helper
for a lunch that their own children are not attending, please leave a note in
the School Office for Mrs. Abramczyk.
Mix-It-Up Lunches
CASS
has focused a strong portion of time and effort into redirecting our children's
energy into more positive behaviors and that’s where Mix-it-up Lunches come
in!
This activity has created a fun venue for our kids to interact with students from
other grades. This also allows our older students to take on the role of mentors
and maybe share some of the wisdom they have acquired from their high school mentors.
CASS has extended itself into the library... Miss McQuown has graciously donated
her time into developing the CASS Corner. An extensive collection of reading material
covering relational aggression, friendship and character covering all grade levels
is continually growing. Miss McQuown also reads selected stories to the primary
grades.
The Cool Club
The
Cool Club Team works with students in grades K through 3. The group is comprised
of the dedicated and caring team and the overwhelmingly supportive K through 3rd
Grade teaching staff.
The first half of the year the Cool Club focused on bullying, the three groups
involved (the aggressor, the victim, the “kids-in-the-middle”), and
all their feelings. They shared stories, played games, role-played and had small
and large group discussions. The CASS team works with the students for a 40-minute
session once a month. A and B classes for a given grade level are brought together
for each session.
The focus for the second half of the year will be communication and learning conflict
resolution skills.
CASS Wrap-Up
CASS
is present in many ways in our school. Last year 1 out of 3 students perceived
aggression to be an issue in our school and we learned that our hot spot is the
cafeteria. So last summer a devoted group of creative, compassionate parents brainstormed
on ways to empower our community to embrace the CASS mission.
You have read about Mix-it-up Lunches, Monthly Grade Level Lunches, and the CASS
Corner in the Library.
Some other CASS projects include:
- September
Day of Prayer - “We are a Mirror of Christ." A large number of parents
participated as group facilitators, speakers and activity coordinators.
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Dr. Jurkovic and Miss Hund organized a very informative Parent Education Series
in the fall.
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Miss Hund developed the CASS Journal. This yearlong journal was created to encourage
the students to reflect on how they can live the Christian values they are taught.
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The Golden Broom Award: Mr. Gangemi and/or Mr. Smith of the maintenance staff
leave the golden broom in the classroom that is tidiest for that week. This simple
activity encourages all to take responsibility and show respect for our school
by keeping it neat and tidy.
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Posters encouraging positive character have been framed and are displayed through
out the school. These posters will be frequently changed.
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The CASS bulletin board in the cafeteria continues to develop into an interactive
display for the students, emphasizing positive character values and community
strength.
Is CASS Working At Cathedral Center?
Yes, the program
is working! We still have bullying and hurt, but the bullies have lost some
power, and the victim now has the language to identify the behavior. The
kids in the middle now recognize the behavior and realize that it's OK to step
in and help. The CASS Program has empowered our children with the knowledge
they need to better deal with bullying and negative behavior displayed by other
kids.
The
Ophelia Project is committed to standing by our side for three years, guiding
us through this process and improving upon the already apparent progress we've
made thus far.
Those individuals who embarked on this journey early on never had the expectation
that all children in our school would be friends or that we could totally eliminate
all aggressive behavior in our school.
We did, and still do, believe that each member of our Cathedral Center family
is uniquely special and should likewise be treated with dignity and respect.
Our
measure of success is your child’s perception.
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